以下のように、externalTrafficePolicyとuse-forward-hadersを設定する
apiVersion: argoproj.io/v1alpha1
kind: Application
metadata:
  name: ingress-nginx
  namespace: argocd
spec:
  project: default
  source:
    repoURL: 'https://kubernetes.github.io/ingress-nginx'
    chart: ingress-nginx
    targetRevision: 4.12.2
    helm:
      values: |
        controller:
          allowSnippetAnnotations: true
          service:
            externalTrafficPolicy: Local
          config:
            use-forwarded-headers: true
